When I joined the gay male escorting, my priority was to make money. I have heard of the huge amount of money that guys in the industry make, and I wanted to be able to take care of myself and my siblings. However, a few years into the industry I discovered that my thinking has all these while been myopic. Gay male escorting is a family and building the family becomes your priority the moment you step in.
Ever since I was a kid, I admired the lavish lifestyle of celebrities. I use to admire fast cars, mansions, and stylish dressing. I wanted all of that, but the problem was that I didn’t have any special talent that could make me a celebrity. When I learned about the escorting industry, I decided to give it a shot.
From the outside, what people think about the escort industry is that it is an easy money spinner. On the contrary, when you get into the industry, you will discover that it is the best way to build a family. In my three years of working here, I have met great guys that have added more value to my life.
There is a saying that a friend in need is a friend indeed. The guys from the gay male escorting agency have proved that they are the best of friends I can trust over and over again. The most recent of those series of events happened about seven months ago.
What every escort fear the most is going through client drought. Amateur and professionals alike, it can happen to everyone. Those who live like an escort have the toughest time of their lives when this happens. Some go as long as eight or nine months without getting a single client. It is one of the places that you wouldn’t want to be as an escort.
I had gone four months without getting a single client, and my pocket was already running dry. I didn’t know what to do. In the new era of gay male escorting, the clients come to you, but I didn’t mind trying out the traditional method where escorts went out seeking for clients. I was that desperate because escorting paid all my bills. If I didn’t get a client soon, I would be in a serious problem.
The fifth month of client drought I decided to open up to some of my friends in the industry. Sometimes, escorts and those providing companionship also need someone to keep them company. I told them, but I wasn’t expecting anything from them. I just needed someone to share my problem.
I told only two guys but what they did stun me. One of them volunteered to be giving me a tip which was enough for a day’s ration. It was a huge relief. At least I know that I was never going to die from starvation.
Unknown to me they had discussed my difficulty with other guys in the gay male escorting industry, both within our agency and outside our agency. I cannot explain the love enough. What they did was recommend me to their clients just before they part with them. By the end of the week, I had gotten a couple of beeps, and a few of them went ahead to hire me.
I was excited when I was hired again. It almost felt like the first time I was hired. After the spell of client drought was broken, I went back to my friends to show my gratitude. I asked them the best way they would want me to thank them in return. They simply told me that if I want to show gratitude, I should help another escort if the need should arise because we are a large family. I was charmed by their simplicity and sense of family. I promised them that I would certainly do that.
Gay male escorting has made me understand the true meaning of family how we should treat one another. It thought me that if we had a great family, we could all watch each other’s back. I have pledged to focus more on building a family because the money would last for a while, but family lasts forever.