Guide to Taking Escorting Clients on a Successful Date

Whether you’re a brand new escort or an experienced one, there are always ways to sharpen your skills and hone your techniques.

Escorting is an industry that requires constant practice and learning. There is no right way to escort: each experience is different, with its own challenges and opportunities for growth. To grow as an escort, you have to adapt your strategies and approaches frequently.

And it can be a challenging job at times, but it’s also very rewarding. If you’re interested in becoming a successful escort but aren’t sure where to begin, this quick guide will help get you started on the path to becoming the escort you want to be.

Research your clients

The most important part of any escort experience is the first meeting with your client. The first meeting will likely be the most important factor in shaping the rest of your relationship. If your first meeting goes well, you’re likely to see your client again. If your first meeting doesn’t go well, though, you’re unlikely to see your client again. In order to have a successful first meeting with your client, you have to do a little bit of research before you meet. When you’re new, you have little to no leverage, so it’s critical to know as much as you can before you meet with your client for the first time. You want to make sure you collect as much information about your client as possible, their likes, dislikes, expectations etc.

Know your boundaries

No matter which type of escort services you offer, it’s absolutely essential that you know your boundaries. You want to make sure that you’re comfortable with the services you offer and that you’re not offering anything that you don’t want to do. If you’re a brand new escort, it can be helpful to be upfront and honest with your client that you’re new and keen to have them lead the date. It’s a good idea to start out by taking clients on dates or with other low-pressure activities. You want to make sure you have the opportunity to practice the skills you’ve learned so far, and get used to the pressures that come with being an escort.

Things to do on a date

One of the most important things to remember about dating with escorting clients is that it’s still dating. You want to make sure that you’re approaching your interaction with your client as a date — not an appointment or a business meeting. You want to make sure that you’re very conscious of your date’s comfort level and boundaries, and that you’re constantly asking your client how they’re feeling. When you’re on a date with your client, you want to make sure that you’re doing something that both of you enjoy. There are lots of ways to do this: it could be something as simple as going out to eat, grabbing drinks at a bar, or attending an event in your city.


As an escort, you have the opportunity to form meaningful relationships with clients that are both professionally and personally fulfilling. To do this, it’s important to conduct yourself in a way that ensures you’re always taking advantage of the benefits of this career. When you take the time to prepare for each date, and conduct escorting with a strong, clear, and compassionate boundaries, you’re more likely to have a positive experience.

At the same time, you’re more likely to have clients who come back to use your services again and again.

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