This is the first in our series of anonymous posts from new and existing escorting clients. Here to tell you about their experience dating one of our many male companions here on the website.
This time, we hear from Dan in Newcastle on why he chose to hire a gay male escort.
Online dating can feel like one of the loneliest experiences in the world. You spend a lot of time staring at your screen, sending messages and browsing profiles, but there’s not much actual human contact involved. Moreover, it’s easy to feel disconnected from real-life interactions when you’re constantly staring at a computer screen.
With that in mind, I decided to take my dating/lovelife game to the next level by setting up an “in real life” date with a male escort. Now, I know we aren’t likely to fall in love and get married – but to me, this small window was an opportunity to relax and let my hair down as a gay guy in Newcastle. The thought of hiring an escort – many people find scary initially, but it’s not as bad as it sounds. There are plenty of pros to going on a real-life date with an escort, so here’s my top 4 reasons:
It Gives You A Chance To Be Discreet
If you’re going on a date with someone who you’re not interested in romantically, you don’t have to worry about things getting awkward. On the contrary, you have an easier time together when you’re not feeling any pressure. This leads me to my core reason for hiring a male escort; like a kid in a candy shop, you can dive into your pick ‘n’ mix and choose someone you really like the look of.
It’s why websites like The Male Escort Agency are so handy – allowing you to pick someone who catches your eye, who is open to discreetly exploring and doing whatever your heart desires, without having to zone out over Tinder or Grindr, making small talk just to get yourself on a date – it simply makes it easier to cut to the chase.
It’s a chance to practice your social skills.
A lot of people feel nervous or anxious when they first start dating. This is normal, but it can also be frustrating if you don’t know how to control it. This is another reason why I hired a male escort – it turns out, going on a real-life date like this is a great way to practice your social skills and become more confident in social situations.
Most people feel far less comfortable or confident when they’re dating in person than they do when they’re online so really, going on a date with a male escort is also a great way to practice and build your dating skills without any serious consequences. Going on a date is a great way to test out new conversation skills and practices. You can try out new conversation topics, see how successful they are, and then try them again when you go on a real date with someone you found online. You can also experiment with different ways to communicate with people, and see what works best.
It’s a chance to have some fun and feel less lonely.
The internet is a great place to meet new people, but you risk feeling lonely when you spend too much time swiping left or right without many conversations. You’re also more likely to isolate yourself if you’re only talking to people online, and you don’t go out of your way to meet people IRL.
Going on a real-life date with a male escort can be a great way to meet new people, and simply have no strings fun. You can talk to your date about anything you want, and this can help you feel less lonely. If your date goes well, you can also make plans to meet up again even.
You may also find that going on real-life dates with male escorts can help you get out of the house and do new things you wouldn’t have usually tried – again, without the pressure you’d usually find with a ‘normal’ date.
It’s an opportunity to become more comfortable with dating again.
You might have dated earlier in life, but something may have happened to make you put dating on the back burner. Or, you may have never dated before, and gone through what feels like an incredibly long and painful process to meet people online. Going on a real-life date is a great opportunity to do this with someone who may never be in your ‘league’. Allowing you to get a feel for dating again, and see if you still enjoy it.
You may discover that you’re still interested in dating, that you want to date more often, or that you don’t want to date as much as you thought you did. You may also see if you want to change the way that you date. Whatever you discover, going on a date like this will help you become more comfortable with dating.
There are many benefits to dating a male escort in Newcastle. For me, I found online dating a really lonely experience, so it’s nice to have the opportunity to meet someone attractive and new in-person to have fun with, without judgement or anticipation. I really found this practice, dating several times over a few months gave me the chance to practice my social skills, and become more comfortable with dating and looking for dates with new guys near me.