We’ve talked before about selling your unique personality to clients, but that’s only half the challenge of writing a profile. As much as your clients want to know about you, they also want to know about what you can do for them.
Who Are You Writing For?
First and foremost, it’s best to pick an audience and run with it. Not every client will want every type of escort and that’s okay. You need to play to your strengths and appeal to the clients who will appreciate those strengths. Those are the genuine clients who’ll stick with you.
How you define that demographic is, of course, up to you. For some, it’ll be about the experience you’re offering – are you going to be an exciting holiday companion or a chaperone for upscale events? Alternatively, you might think about the age range of your clients. Some escorts like to target a specific age, while others go broad.
Focus on clients who are a genuine fit for you, targeting people who’ll like what you’re offering without alienating those who won’t. The key is to talk about what you will do and avoid talking about what you won’t do as much as possible.
Be Specific
Many escorts offer a list of services such as ‘dinner dates’ and ‘the boyfriend experience’. This is good, in that it sets a broad expectation about what the encounter will be, but it needs more details to really conjure an image.
What does a dinner date with you look like? Will you pour the wine and strike up a conversation about your favourite vintages? Are you the type to tell jokes over dinner? It’s these small details that give a real sense of who you are and how your clients will engage with you.
Try not to undermine yourself. If you say that you’re a chatty storyteller who’s lived a fascinating life but immediately follow that up by talking about how great a listener you are, this will feel insincere. It reads as compensation, as though you were worried about the impression you might be giving. It’s always better to be confident, even if you run the risk of putting some clients off.
It’s also best to avoid negativity. Self-deprecating humour and sarcasm have their place, but it can be hard to convey tone in text, and there’s always the risk of being misunderstood.
Talk About Boundaries
It’s not easy to draw personal boundaries as an escort, but it is important. Escorting is both personal and professional. It’s a job that requires you to share a part of yourself and encourage your clients to do likewise.
When writing your profile, it’s always good to be open and honest about where that line sits for you. Avoid being blunt but try to be clear about how much and how little you’re comfortable sharing. This sets a clear expectation at the start, and it can help establish a sense of trust.
At the same time, make it clear that their boundaries matter to you, too, and that you understand the importance of these conversations, particularly if you or your client are looking to remain anonymous.
Here are some examples:
| ❌ Blunt | ✔️ Clear |
| No late night messages | Please don’t message me late at night |
| Don’t be rude | I value mutual respect |
| No whinging | I prefer to keep things positive and uplifting |
Remember that many clients won’t trust you at first. This may be the first time they’ve hired an escort. They’re likely to be nervous and wary about being scammed – with good reason. This industry has its fair share of bad actors, and you’ll want to do everything you can to show you’re not one of them.
One way to achieve this is to be as clear and up front as possible about safety – both for your own protection and for your clients. It’s very important that you know how to stay safe as a male escort and having a clear focus on safety in your profile shows that you’re responsible.
It’s Okay To Brag
There’s a fine line between selling yourself and outright boasting but it’s usually better to take the risk than not. When all’s said and done, this profile is here to talk about why people would want to spend time with you. You can’t do that without talking about your strengths.
Is there a skill you’re particularly good at? Talk about it. Do you have achievements you look back on with pride? Put them in.
There’s no value in being shy. Now’s the time to talk about what makes you special with honesty and conviction. If you believe it, then your clients are infinitely more likely to.
What’s Next?
If you think you’re ready to get going, the button below is your first step to professional help in creating your male escorting profile. Alternatively, hit the link at the bottom to find out everything you need to know about the photos you’ll need to support your writing.
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