When thinking about the escorting industry, many people envision men seeking women’s companionship. While that is undoubtedly a huge part of escorting, the reality is that many women are also seeking straight male escorts – as someone who has done so myself, I should know!
As such, there are many men interested in becoming a male escort (which is likely why you’re here right now), as it means getting paid a hefty sum for pleasing a woman. Of course, if you want to be successful, it helps to understand why women hire male escorts in the first place, and, in turn, what they actually want from the experience. You might be surprised to find the reality is different from what you initially expect.
This guide to male escorting is all about showing you the women’s perspective.
The Rise in Male Escorts for Women
Straight male escorts have been around for a long, long time, but it is only in recent years that the industry has boomed, with more and more women seeking that connection.
There are a few reasons for this. Part of it is the rise in representation, with movies like Good Luck to You, Leo Grande (2022) featuring the much-loved national treasure Emma Thompson taking command of her own life and hiring a male escort for her own pleasure. There’s also the fact that the online world has made seeking company that much easier. Whatever the reason, the reality is that more and more women are looking for straight male escorts to meet their needs – whatever those needs may be.
5 Common Reasons Women Hire Straight Male Escorts
As a woman who has hired male escorts in the past (and has experienced the good, the bad, and the mediocre), and has spoken extensively to other women who have wanted to try a male escort, I have the useful intel you need to make your client’s experience as perfect as possible. So, here are 5 of the most common reasons women hire straight male escorts. The chances are, if you succeed as a male escort, you’ll come across a variety of these clients.
1. Physical Intimacy
Some women have a lot going for them – they may have a great social life and plenty of money in the bank. What they may be missing, however, is a sexual life. For some, intimacy may even be part of their long-lost past!
It makes sense then that a big reason many women seek male escorts is for the physical intimacy side of things. The best male escorts know exactly how to please a woman, from sensual experiences like a full-body massage to other more intimate goings-on in the bedroom.
2. For a Date Partner
It is common for women to be invited to an event – whether it’s a wedding, birthday party, or a family reunion – and to be expected to bring a male partner with them. Or, they may simply feel too embarrassed to show up alone. In either of these scenarios, having a male escort feels like a lifesaver, as they can simply hire a man to be their date for the day, night, weekend, or however long they need them for. Oftentimes, this escort situation won’t even involve physical intimacy, although it differs from client to client, of course!
3. The Boyfriend Experience
While it’s known that male loneliness is unfortunately at an all-time high, it’s important to note that this also affects women. Many women struggle to find a boyfriend, while others simply do not have the time for it. In these cases, many financially strong women take their life into their own hands and hire a male escort for emotional intimacy purposes.
These clients understand that they aren’t getting a real boyfriend, but the boyfriend experience is enough to emotionally support their needs. A lot of the experience here may not even involve physical intimacy, but rather genuine, deep conversations and time spent in one another’s company. They will also pay for keeping in contact when apart (much like a boyfriend would), for example, via texting.
4. To Avoid Emotional Attachment
Some women clients want that emotional intimacy; on the other hand, other clients want to avoid emotional attachment altogether, and that’s why they hire a straight male escort in the first place. Some women like the idea of being physically close with a man, but don’t like the idea of the man getting too emotionally attached, as they are not ready to actually date or have a boyfriend. A male escort provides the perfect middle-ground, offering that closeness they desire without the worry about commitment.
5. To Fulfill Fantasies
Lots of women have fantasies that they have never been able to try out in their own lives. That may be because their partners aren’t particularly into those same fantasies, or because they don’t have a partner at all. In this case, women may seek out a straight male escort to tell him exactly what they want from the experience. Naturally, these fantasies differ greatly from woman to woman – there is not much of a limit in variety!
Finding Out What Your Female Client Wants
As you can see, there are several reasons a woman might want a gentleman’s companionship. Naturally, you need to know what your client wants before meeting her, as you want to give her the best possible experience that ticks all of her boxes.
That’s why asking her the right questions via messenger or text before meeting is key.
Final Thoughts
As a male escort, you may think you have it all figured out when it comes to pleasuring women. The truth is, to truly satisfy your next client, you need to understand her wants and needs on a more personal level. By getting to grips with the underlying reasons why women want to hire male escorts, you are more likely to give her an exceptional experience she won’t forget. In turn, she will likely hire you again – and perhaps even recommend your fantastic services to her girlfriends.