If you want to be a great male escort – and particularly if you want to have a great profile – then you’ll need to show that you’ve got a sense of style.
A sense of style is a lot like a sense of humour. It showcases who you are and why you’re appealing to be around. In particular, it’s one of the main things women look for in a companion.
Now, we’re certainly not saying you need to be wearing Armani suits to a backyard barbecue or that you’ll need to hire a makeup trailer just to leave the house. What we are saying is that it’s important to show you’re putting the effort in while paying attention to what your client is asking for.
Reading The Room
Ties, shirts, and even skirts – there are endless options for the adventurous male escort, but choosing what to wear isn’t just about finding the clothes that make you look your best. Before heading out to meet your client, it’s important to think carefully about the event you’re going to. It’s the difference between dressing fancy and fancy dress.
Some events are easy. If you’re having a meal in an expensive restaurant, then you generally can’t go wrong with a white shirt and a tie. If you’re going to a local goth night, then you may need a little more preparation time.
When in doubt, it’s always okay to ask – actually it’s often best to ask either way unless you’re really certain. Some clients prefer smart, others like smart casual. Some clients like to be quite specific about these things while others aren’t concerned. Asking the question only goes to show that you’re polite, interested in their opinion, and that you take the time to prepare.
How to Find Your Style
“The apparel oft proclaims the man”, as Shakespeare once wrote, which is why you should never wear a shirt bearing the words “Female Body Inspector”.
Even when they’re a little less literal, clothes do send a message about who you are and that can be a great thing. Some guys like to wear bright colours that stand out across a crowded room. Others lean cosier with lots of warm winter knitwear.
Your style can be bold and vibrant or it can be calm and reserved. It can even be both, depending on the occasion. What’s most important is that your style should reflect who you are. It’s more than fashion, it’s a part of your branding.
Being trendy and stylish might be at the core of how you sell yourself. On the other hand, plenty of escorts present themselves with a more classical/vintage style. There’s no right or wrong, so long as what you’re wearing is appropriate to the occasion.
This isn’t just about how you look on the outside. How your clothes make you feel can be just as important. Some men are at their most confident when they’re flaunting their inner peacock. Others prefer not to draw attention to themselves that way, winning people over through charming conversation and a fine personality.
The style that works for you will almost always be a balance of what’s right for the occasion and what makes you feel comfortable.
You Don’t Have to Spend a Fortune on Clothes
It’s hard to go wrong with a tailor made suit but you can still dress your best on a budget.
Above all else, make sure you don’t look scruffy. There’s nothing wrong with a cheap shirt from your local supermarket so long as it’s well ironed and doesn’t have holes in it. This may seem like a small point but it makes all the difference.
Even if you’re going to an informal occasion it’s far safer to be a little too smart than a little too casual.
Never forget the importance of good grooming – particularly when it comes to facial hair. If you have facial hair, try to make sure it’s well trimmed and styled. If you’re worried about your own styling talents, then a good barber is certainly an option. That said, there are lots of great resources online that can show you how to do it from home.
Photographing Fashion
Lastly, let’s talk about profiles – arguably the most important time to be showing off your sense of style.
Taking pictures for your companionship profile can be challenging, but it all starts with dressing the part. A good profile thrives on variety. Clients might want to know how you’ll look on a night out, but they might also be interested in what you’d wear to a casual brunch or on a trip to a museum. You’ll want to get a good mix of outfits so they can see your range.
It’s also worth taking a moment to think about dressing up versus dressing down. Bulging biceps and a six pack are unlikely to hurt your profile but they’re also not the be all and end all – particularly not if you’re aiming at a female audience.
Women like to see some abs but if that’s all you’re offering, then you’re targeting a male gaze, not a female one. Having an incredible body is certainly an asset but you need to make it clear that there’s more to you than a well-used gym membership. If you’re targeting women, then you’ll have to either put some clothes on or be prepared for a lot of calls from guys.
Of course, there are some outfits that can do both. Anyone who’s seen James Bond walking up the beach in Casino Royale knows that you can get a great picture with just a pair of swimming trunks so long as you’ve got the body to match.
With that said, your watchword should always be variety. Make sure your clients can see that you’d be the perfect companion, whether you’re going to a Caribbean island, a dinner party, or even a night out on the town. Just make sure that whatever your style, you OWN it!
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